There are times we do not understand the actions of our friends and loved ones. This is fair to say. However, we can skip the step of judgment and go to the place of acceptance. Then, if we still feel that desire to judge, we might even ask questions that may bring us understanding. And when we find that we are still not yet on board we must respect that being in those chosen actions.
We may remain on opposite points of view and still choose respect that their choice is all a part of their journey. It is entirely possible that there is another part to this puzzle that still must be revealed to both parties. A little respect goes a long way to allowing understanding to shine. I’ve got this.
When I finally uncover the secrets that are hidden in my soul will I still like what I find? At this moment, of my evolution, I love the “me” that I am; yet I know that I still have so much work to do. Every day a new facet of my being catches the light and I breathe in the newer depth of understanding of who I am. I feel the alignment with my authentic self and I honor this gentle shift.
I am clear that there is so much more and I am excited to continue this journey. Though I must admit I still allow the frailty of my sensitive being to be undermined by those forces outside of myself. There can only be one Judge, one Master, one Supreme Force who can alter my way of being and that is I.
Now I remind myself that I have only had just a peak and each day I will allow myself yet one more peak. And when my soul is totally revealed, to me, I will make my transition I’ve got this.
Chances are, when I am meeting you for the first time, I am more impressed with how you are being than I am about what you are doing. Why? You are a human being and not a human doing. You may be doing great work and accomplishing great things in your life. However, if you are not being kind or considerate or loving as you are doing it, I may be feeling a misalignment with your integrity.
This is not a judgment; it is more an observation of my own feelings in response to your way of being. We make choices every day about those things that we do. It only takes a moment to also choose powerful, positive ways to be. It can be the entire difference in how you are being received. Over all my first impression is based on your way of being and not what you are doing. After all you are a human being.